How to Get a Girlfriend – Steps Towards Attracting the RIGHT Woman

If you are having a hard time gettingĀ  a girlfriend, you are probably approaching the problem from a bad perspective. Having some things cleared in your mind can change your odds considerably. So even before you consider dating a girl, you need to know a couple of things.

Get these steps right and you are on the correct path:

1. Know what you want

2. How to get over your shyness

3. Know how to open up a conversation

I will explain each of these suggestions and show how you can leverage them to approach the girl of your dreams.

1. Know What Your Dream Girl Should Be Like

is the most important thing if you are looking for a long term relationship. Like a journey where you know exactly where you want to go, and what you want to visit, finding the girl of your dreams starts with defining in realistic terms your expectations and desires from her. Not having a profile in mind, will keep you confused, and will stop you from taking action. Is utterly important to know what are the qualities you want to attract.

2. Getting Over Your Shyness

Believe it or not, being shy is a common problem for most of the guys. And getting over it is a matter of exercise and conscious effort of your part. The first thing you can ask yourself is “What are my strong points?” or “what are my qualities and accomplishments that I am proud of?”. Having a positive attitude towards yourself, can reflect in your overall behavior. A friendly smile can help you get rid of the tension and looking the person you are talking to in the eyes will also give you confidence. Of course, you won’t be able to get rid of shyness as long as you don’t take action and fight it.

3. How To Start A Conversation

Getting over shyness will make it easy to focus on other aspects, like what to say to a girl when you first talk. Not knowing what to say can be frustrating, particularly when you are really attracted to that girl. The opening line does matter, but only as much as giving you a starting point. Something like “Hi, it’s my friend’s birthday tomorrow, and she’s very similar in style and looks to you, and I forgot to get her a gift. So I was wondering if you could suggest something”, all this in a very friendly and non sexual manner will create a tension free zone that you can further exploit in order to know her better.

Knowing what you want will keep you focused on the path toward your goal. Getting over shyness will ease the conversation, and keep you relaxed and cool. Opening a conversation with a proper line, will open up the communication channels between the two of you, giving you the chance to know the girl of your dreams better.

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